The best way to invoke these crystals’ influence is to hold them in your hands, and awaken their energy by envisioning the passion, romance, and sensuality you wish to attract. Talk to the crystal; tell it exactly what you want it to do. Then simply carry the crystals with you as you go through your day.
As Beltane is the fire festival honoring of the highest point of Spring, it’s a time to celebrate the passion and joy of all our intimate connections, and to open our hearts to new relationships. This is the season for sacred rituals and witchy practices to attract romantic partners, make new friends, and manifest your heart’s desires.
Her influence isn’t just about the carnal acts, but the entire experience. The romance of holding another’s hand, of couch cuddling and hot chocolate; the sweet taste of another’s mouth, the smell of perfume and pheromones. The feeling that swells in us when we are inspired by art, our infatuation with a beautiful song or affecting novel, the light and shadow playing across your skin as you watch the sun set… All these experiences are Aphrodite’s gifts.
I had a tendency to get caught up with dudes and guys, instructing them in the basics of being a civilized companion. Like no, it’s not appropriate to make fart jokes on a first, second, or hundredth date. Yes, it is rude to ask me out to dinner and then expect me to pay. No, it’s not okay to ask me a question and then check your phone will I’m talking. Yes, foreplay actually IS a real thing, and no, it’s only boring if you’re doing it wrong.